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What is the sense in living,if you aren’t healthy?

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Q&A: What is the sense in living,if you aren’t healthy?

I’m not healthy. I’m feeling alone,even if I have a husband and a daughter. I believe in God and Jessus, but this thing does not help me to get better.

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Answer by Confuflux
I know exactly how you feel.

Over the past two years, my doctors determined I have Asperger’s Syndrome, Bipolar Disorder and a very dangerous sleep disorder. I often thought of the value of life.

But then I looked to doctors and medication. I had to go through a period of mental wellness before I could fix myself that way.

Answer by BECKBY
Please contact me. I have been living with chronic pain for over 15 yrs. and I know exactly what you mean. If it weren’t for having God in my life I would probably not be here!Please, let’s talk.

Answer by Facelessangel
because you can be in a wheelchair.. be in pain… be disabled phisically or mentally.. you could be blind.. you could be deaf.. no matter what happens someone will always love you and be there to support you… could be family, could be friends.. could be a stranger… no matter what happens your pain is always shared..

Answer by pagolpakhi
healthy is a very relative term

u are healthy
if u are living ur life as much as possible..

if a blind man can read all the books, travel the world , have family and kids
is he unhealthy

use the resources you have
just a few naggin problems shouldnt drag u down
okay it limits ur opportunity
but doesnt necesarily kills all ur options..
find the way u can live
ant that life will be the normal

Answer by redsheads have lower pain thresh
You do not say HOW unhealthy U R Not feeling good can cause some people to feel very depressed especially if the condition involves pain and/or is chronic .If you ask your Dr for help and a referral to a mental health clinic you may be able to speak to some one who can help you enormously…If you are religious talk to your priest pastor or minister…Do you not have friends to sit and chat with? If not make a move to better your situation…talk about your specific health problem and maybe there are those who can advise don’t give up learn everything you can about your illness and keep asking for help ’till you get it …

Answer by DA R
I am not so healthy either and many times I have wondered what is the use in continueing knowing I will only continue to suffer and be in pain. Then it hit me like a ton of bricks. I am not here for ME. I am here for all of THEM. They will grow by my suffering and HOW I choose to handle it in front of them. I can inspire them to be strong, or I can inspire them to be glad when I am gone.

When you need a lot from people and a lot of patience with yourself and your condition, you provide many with opportunities to be good people. If it were not for people like US, then pray who would others do good things and good works for? If you pray for opportunities to help others and then you act on them, you have to know YOU may be a pray answered on their behalf.

Not to mention, you do not teach from the GRAVE. You can only teach while living…by word, by deed, by example. You NEVER know what kind of a life you children have ahead of them. They may very well SURVIVE on your example before their life is over.

Answer by linda d
I agree. my mom suffered from chronic back pain, arthritis, etc. for 20 years. last Xmas she did not even come out of the room, she was in that much pain. then a few weeks later, she could not hold her poop. We finally called 911 on a thrusday…she was in so much pain in her stomach but as she was being wheeled out on the stretcher, she told my 8 yr old daughter don’t cry, i will be back soon!!! she died 3 days later on jan. 29, 2006. her intestines had to be removed right away, they were infected. We had no clue!!! she was only 64 years old. when she came out of surgery, she was on a ventilator. she died the next morning. her body could not take the surgery…it was too frail. even though, mwe and my daughter were EXTREMLY close to my mother. it was for the best. she was suffering way too much. she had said a year before, if i keep being in this pain, i do not want to live. My dad was her caretaker for a lot of years, he is 70 and is now able to go on vacations. he was not able too before cuz of my mother. My son was born feb 3rd…5 days after my mother died . I am very sad she will not know my 2nd child but i would be selfish to want her here when she wanted to be free from pain and now she is.

Answer by Kimberly
Hi, Fulgaw,
Living with illness is difficult to say the least but a positive attitude and a willingness to “go on” is the best medicine…
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I work in the medical field, and their are a lot of people, who “fight” their illness, to get better, and “really” want to live.. because they would like to enjoy the little things what makes life “worthwhile” ..
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Believe me, they fight/struggle hard!! ..
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And that is what you should do, too..
I know, it is not easy at all..
But their is soooo much, to live for..”If you just open your eyes” …
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Once you become “aware”.. of the force for unity in life, you
can’t ever forget it…. It becomes part of everything you do…
In that respect, this is an extension of a love supreme, since
the conception of that force keeps changing shape…. and that is to uplift people, as much as I can…..
To inspire them.. to realize more and more of their capacities
for living meaningful lives….. Because there certainly is
meaning to life…
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Believe me, their is : also for “you”!!

I wish you a lot of courage, to move on with a “positive attitude”, and don’t forget your : “sense of humor”, very important!!
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My regards! .. x
Also, to the other people, who also answered your question!
and they all mean well!;)

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